Dining Etiquette: The Dos and Don'ts of Pre-meal Protocol
Sharing a meal with someone is a great way to connect with others and build relationships. But, did you know that your pre-meal behavior can impact your dining experience? Follow these dining etiquette tips to ensure that you make the right impression during your next meal.
Do Arrive Early
Arrive at the restaurant early and if you are the first to arrive, take a seat at the bar and order a drink. But never be more than five minutes early, because you want to respect the restaurant's schedule and the other diners' time.
Don't Start Eating until Everyone Is Served
Wait until all your companions' food arrives before starting to eat. It is polite to wait for everyone to have their food and be seated before eating. Moreover, it is considered rude to start eating before everyone is served.
Do Place Your Napkin on Your Lap
Upon sitting down, place your napkin in your lap. The napkin should remain there throughout the meal, unless you need to use the restroom or leave the table. Before leaving the table, place the napkin on the chair seat, not on the table or plate.
Don't Talk with Your Mouth Full
It is not only unsightly, but also unhealthy. So wait until you have swallowed to speak. If someone speaks to you while you are chewing, it's okay to signal with your hand that you need a moment to finish.
Do Use Utensils Appropriately
Remember the classic rule: Use your utensils from the outside in. Therefore, your salad fork is the one on the far left, your dinner fork is in the middle, and your dessert fork is on the right. The same goes for the knives and spoons. Don't use your knife to scoop food into your mouth or your fingers to push food onto your spoon or fork. Instead, use the appropriate utensil for each dish.
Don't Play with Your Cutlery
Despite your desire to pass the time, refrain from playing with your utensils. Avoid tapping them, scraping them against your plate, or pointing with them. This distracts other diners and could damage your tableware.
Do Show Courtesy to Others
Be courteous to the other diners and servers. This includes not using your cell phone, placing it face down on the table, chewing with your mouth closed, and not speaking loudly, especially if you are in a public dining space.
Don't Take More Than You Can Eat
If you are served more food than you can eat, don't overstuff yourself or waste food. Simply leave it on your plate. It's okay if you don't finish everything on your plate. Just leave enough food so that others are not aware that you didn't like it.
Conclusion
Following basic dining etiquette can make a huge impression on others during meals, whether you're at a formal banquet or just eating at your favorite restaurant. Good manners and consideration for others are always appreciated, and will make your dining experience more enjoyable.
